Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships (Smart Dating Books for Women)

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In a nutshell, chasing a man will result in him losing even the slightest interest and attraction he may have had for you, and often times it means he does not want you.

Do open up and escalate investment on both sides. Then watch. Does he reciprocate? That will tell you whether you can keep growing together or if you need to move on. CONS You have to admit that desperate people aren’t attractive to anyone. After all, men love to be the ones doing the chasing.

The author says that for a long-term solid relationship, you need an intimate and emotional connection. Imagine that your relationship was Lady Justice’s scale, with everything you put into it on one side and everything you received on the other side. But, of course, with you doing all the chasing, that would be one lopsided scale. No one would likely want to take such injustice. Finally, focus on becoming a great catch yourself, stay true to your standards and boundaries (remember: the more you respect them, the higher your self-esteem!), and… Enjoy the process. He says you show it in those situations where, if you just were a bit more flexible, he would find you more pleasant to be around. I didn’t realize this until I was 23 years old, when I broke up with my ex. I learned that you should never chase a man after a break-up.

If this is still difficult, or you feel like you might relapse, it would be advisable to have someone to hold you accountable and to talk to who can answer your question, “How to communicate with a man without chasing him?” or schedule sessions with a therapist or a counselor. When you keep obsessing about getting this guy to be with you, you’ll start losing interest in other things. Your relationship can never be balanced! You do all the chasing and never get chased; you give all the love and attention and never get some in return. Eventually, it would take a toll on you and may even affect your mental health .A woman who dates as if she deserves a man’s love: · Pays more attention to what a man does than what a man says. · Does not make excuses for a man’s poor behavior, no matter how dreamy he is. · Does not need to walk on eggshells with a man for fear of being let go. · Does not lose sleep over a man that clearly does not want her. · Does not confuse the emotional drama of being treated poorly with “being in love.” · Does not have to settle for an unloving man because of her age, status, etc. · Does not waste emotional energy trying to understand “how could he be this way?” or trying to decipher “why does he keep treating me this way?” · Does not risk her dignity trying to chase a man who has dumped her. · Does not waste her time dating men with whom she never knows where she stands. · Is honest and forthright with both herself and the men she dates when it comes to what she wants and needs in a relationship. · Presents herself as high-quality girlfriend material and desires both love AND respect from a man. · Works hard on herself to develop the irresistible qualities that men desire in the woman they want to cultivate a long-term, committed relationship with…”

When you focused on him, he was the only one you saw and nobody else. Now, he’s been moved to the sidelines, and you may notice that other men are interested in you. One of them might just be a better fit for you. So stop chasing the wrong men! Know your worth. Like attracts like my friends. And trust that there is someone equally as awesome, just around the corner for you, waiting to find you too. In the meantime, instead of chasing men – I want you to focus on yourself instead. Become happy in who you are, before seeking others to be your source of happiness. A high value woman does not chase a man, because she truly believes that if he ain’t the one, many more will want to be with her.When you stop chasing him, you may notice the essential people in your life who love you, but you probably drifted away from them because you were too focused on him. 8. Your life seems more interesting

But when you hit a snag, men will be less likely to want to work it out compared to if they were married. This is not healthy for a relationship . Stop and slow down, make him come to you, or meet him in the middle. 3. He is probably using you So please don’t let a guy wear you down, especially if he’s not doing the groundwork there too. He’s definitely not worth it and you’ve got to have the self-respect to walk away and put yourself first. A relationship isn’t supposed to work in one direction. So, if this is your story, stop chasing him and see what happens when you stop chasing a man. The whole process of halting your chase may be difficult, but this can save you from going through heartbreak in the future.He says women should be assertive in asking for what they want and need from the beginning instead. Give Him The Joy of Conquest Wouldn’t our lives be so much easier if we never stumbled upon people who didn’t have our best interests at heart? When you think about it, you shouldn’t put everything you have into chasing a woman unless you’re a hundred percent sure she’s worth the chase. Full Book Name: Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets To Get The Guy, Keep Him Interested, And Prevent Dead-End Relationships Do not diminish the value of your love by lavishing it on a mere casual suitor. Female devotion when a man has not earnt it - its seen as desperation. A woman who is desperate to a man does not arouse his desire, merely his amusement. This can cause you exhibiting other unattractive behaviours - neediness and clinginess. Men first want to earn their way in. So if you stop chasing and it doesn’t go anywhere from there… there’s your sign that you’ve avoided a whole lot of heartbreak!