My Dominant Lesbian Girlfriend: Lesbian Romance and Domination

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citation needed] In the New York City lesbian community, a butch may identify herself as AG (aggressive) or as a stud. Part of the reason for the phrase ‘ pillow princess’ is because of the assumption that hard bottoms are usually the more feminine partner- but again, this is just a stereotype, and being a masc or stud pillow princess is pretty common too. Lesbian Sex 101 is Autostraddle’s series on how to have lesbian sex for queer women and anyone who finds this information applicable to their bodies or sexual activities.

Bottoming is an act,” says Ari, “which to me means choosing to let someone sort of determine the direction our sexy time will take.Also, a soft butch can be someone who falls somewhere between butch and femme, but closer to the butch side.

The social and political institution created and perpetuated by the patriarchy to force people into heterosexual relationships and punish those who do not comply, with the intention of keeping women subservient to men.

Note that scissoring / dry-humping was not included on the survey as it has no clear giving/receiving dynamics. Often thought of as passive, dulcet, timid little things with long locks of hair; prissy dresses; great big fawn eyes; a high, baby-doll voice; the courage of a lamb and the intelligence of a gardenia. The woman takes control, tying her up and showing her just how much fun a little roughness in bed can be.