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Atapour N, Reza Falsafinejad M, Ahmadi K, Khodabakhsi-Koolaee A. A study of the processes and contextual factors of marital infidelity. Pract Clin Psychol. 2021;9(3):211-226. doi:10.32598/jpcp.9.3.758.2 I am in my second marriage. And yes, I am cheating on my husband. I wasn’t always like this: I used to be faithful. I used to be content with only one man. I used to love and trust, from deep within. However, my first husband turned me into something I never knew I could be: A murderer! I killed him, Dave… I poisoned my first husband, and watched him die in our bedroom, painfully. I mixed a deadly, colorless, tasteless, odorless substance with my lotion, smeared it gently on my breast, rubbed it on my vagina, put some on my lips: I coated every part of my body I knew he enjoyed putting his mouth and tongue on, and watched him swallow every bit of his own saliva, mixed with the substance.
Above all else, make sure your kids know that you love them, that you will do everything in your power to be there for them, and spend time with them. Don't let your relationship with their mother keep you from paying attention to your children. She did not come out and tell me she would not stop; in fact each time she said she was sorry and it wouldn’t happen again.Interestingly, studies have found that people who have cheated on their partners tend to be better at detecting lies and deception themselves. Avoidance If you have an uncomfortable feeling or a suspicion you can’t seem to justify, that might be your subconscious telling you that your partner is lying about something. Dealing With Cheating No matter what the thing is, if it’s sexual, it’s almost certain someone in the world will be weirded out enough to get judgmental about it. We are building our own Five (5) bedroom house. My husband does not even know my son is not his child. My boyfriend and I are still putting two and two together until it’s time, and then I will leave my matrimonial home – going radio silent. I am just hoping he dies a natural death or I may have to figure something else out if he starts to prove stubborn. (There are numerous ways to kill a cat). I don’t love my husband, Dave, so I honestly do not have any sympathy left in my being for him or his feeling.”
The day I will physically cheat on him, I would be getting out of this marriage. And it’s going to be in April, 2018. My true love is coming to Ghana, to take me away. I have already secured a Visa to return with him. I have no plans of divorcing my husband. Neither do I plan to tell him about my true feelings. He would return from work one day in April, and find all my belongings at home alright… but I would be gone.” This is a volatile and sensitive period, and it’s okay to feel anger and sadness. Seek professional help immediately if you think you might hurt yourself or someone else, or destroy property.My husband has Alzheimer’s. He became a totally different person. The person I lived with was not the person I got married to. I became severely depressed. There was no one but me to do anything and everything. But of all the reasons why some wives cheat, they have something in common, too: spouses who are looking for something different.
Next, if you have children, you have to carefully approach the situation. Remember, she is their mother. You don't have to tell your children what happened and do not make them choose sides. It's a hard enough situation to have parents that are fighting, even worse if you decide on divorce as your only option. Don't try to turn your kids against her either, it's just not right.At that point it kind of started to wake something up in me though I hadn't really embraced it yet. We talked about it I said I didn't like it and didn't expect it blah blah. She then asked me why I wouldn't expect it, she was up front about her promiscuity when we first started to chat. And if I didn't like it then why did I just watch instead of interrupt? I had no answer, but I said I loved her and we could work on it. My husband was transferred to a different region to work. He visits home on weekends and on holidays. That’s the genesis of my affair. Distance caused it. I know he’s probably also warming his bed as I speak. I wouldn’t be bothered if he’s cheating. All I pray he does is to practice safe sex, because that’s what I am doing in his absence. I am currently in love with both men.” After we got married, he became so controlling and jealous. I put up with it. I wasn’t fooling around — he just didn’t want me to talk to any men or even go out to lunch with girlfriends. Our marriage was really falling apart. Projection happens when a person who has done something wrong starts to accuse others of the same bad behavior and/or imagine everybody else is doing it, too. While mental health professionals disagree about how projection works, they do agree it exists. Projection is what makes a cheating partner more likely to accuse you or someone else of cheating. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy: “Pathways to Infidelity: The Roles of Self-Serving Bias and Betrayal Trauma.”
The married women revealed their extra marital affairs to relationship expert, David Papa Bondze. The confessions have subsequently gone viral on social media. However, the kids are older now, and my husband and I agreed to open up the sexual aspects of the relationship—which I look forward to, but there are a few hooks:Everything was almost perfect at home: we had so much love, trust, respect and peace of mind at home. We had dreams and hopes for our children. I was faithful for the 13 years I’d known him, until late 2017. He was involved in an accident in November, 2016, and has been in a wheelchair since. Doctors have assured us that he will walk again, however, I do not care anymore. I nursed my husband’s wounds, took very good care of him for the whole of 2017, and took upon the responsibility of being the ‘head of the family’. Every woman ought to get to understand a man by letting them speak – at length if necessary. And when it’s your time to show him what time it is, you’d do a better job than those who merely display ignorance (all in the name of ‘duty’, simply because you’re his wife). Dave, I’m far better positioned to sustain a long term journey with my customers in a session. I don’t have to be funny to stay relevant in my business, but it helps to be fun. I am the kind of woman who brightens up a man when I see one, as opposed to the women who brighten up a room when they leave it. You can’t see me and just watch me go; unless I don’t like you.
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