About this deal
He Sleeps in Lingerie – He now sleeps in delicate, feminine lingerie. Satin and silk nighties. Nightgowns. Camisoles and boyshorts. Delicate satin pajamas. Add a little spray of perfume to his nightwear to make it even more feminine. Have them tell you about other people they fantasize about having sex with or the juicy details of past sexual encounters. If you want to take it a little further Pretty soon he’ll be begging you to go out with MORE of your exes! 3. Watch porn or read erotica together
If you stop and think about it, though, it’s not that weird… and it might even be more loving, selfless, and even romantic than you realize. He wants to watch you.
Sex is a big deal in a marriage. Getting it from another partner besides your husband is a big ask. You can keep escalating at your own pace, see how it makes you feel seeing your wife show you how easy it is for her to get f**ked by a hot guy. The one thing you do need to be certain of is that you’re ready to participate, and see your partner participating too. If you want to come at it from a more positive place, you can emphasize your husband’s skill in other areas:
Psychologists have suggested a number of reasons why someone may be turned on by their partner having sex with someone else. Biology It means you need to find what you and her both want to try, start off really slow, work out some rules and then go and try it.It’s easier to find a guy for a threesome, literally get on Tinder and you’ll have a guy within an hour. Also remember that with great power comes responsibility. You are now responsible for another human being. You will have to make many more decisions because he has deferred authority to you, his dominatrix. You have changed his life purpose from the pursuit of happiness to the pursuit of your happiness; you must give him every opportunity to fulfill this new mission and he will be grateful to serve you. After you’ve gotten comfortable with dirty talk and the gentle deflation of your husband’s ego via that dirty talk, it’s time to introduce sex toys. If difficulties or concerns arise, it is advisable to consult with a therapist or relationship counselor who specializes in non-traditional relationships.