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You can also experiment with your own movement method, tuning in to your body—which can help you tune out cultural ideas of what being turned on is supposed to look like—to notice what feels good and natural to you. In other words, masturbate like no one’s watching. 6. Give yourself the full-body treatment. While the clitoris is the center of many vulva owners’ pleasure, solely focusing on it excludes other body parts that can seriously up your enjoyment—think of the difference between a foot rub and a total body massage. “Exploring different parts of your body—with your hand or a vibrator—can create a slow build to orgasm, or you might find yourself having different types of orgasm that you haven’t experienced before,” sex educator Nat DiFrank tells SELF. “This exploration can also be really helpful for people who experience gender dysphoria or have sexual trauma that might make touching or centering genitals uncomfortable.” Once you’ve got the anatomy down, make sure you don’t go straight for the clitoris. This can be super sensitive and most people will need some build up before having their clit touched. ‘Start by lightly trailing a finger or two over the labia. Most people will find that as they rub the labia is rubbed, they naturally start to get wet if they are already turned on. This wetness will act as a lubricant for further fingering,’ Knight says. However, there are many reasons someone might not get wet - from medication to hormones - so don’t despair if you or your partner doesn’t. Just use extra lube. Start light and slow

But the real draw here is the wide array of mediums that your female-positive porn could come in – audio stories; sex films with plot; videos and photo galleries; and more! 5. Literotica – Best Erotic Stories & Fan Fiction Distractions can take up a lot of mental energy—energy that could be dedicated to getting into the self-pleasure zone. “Noisy neighbors? Pop some headphones in and play some audio erotica or sexy songs, depending on your mood,” Rashid-Dawdy suggests. “If you can’t focus with a sink full of dirty dishes looming over you, do them beforehand to clear up some of your mental bandwidth.” Also be sure to put your phone on Do Not Disturb. As Rashid-Dawdy says, “Getting a call from Mom when you’re about to orgasm is not ideal.” Oh, and speaking of technology, she also offers this friendly reminder: Charge your sex toys! A dead battery is another masturbation buzzkill. 13. Just add water—with a showerhead or not.

Formerly known as “Lucie Makes Porn”, CommonSensual features scenes that are all shot from the female perspective , and it’s something that even men could enjoy if they gave it a shot.

You can either penetrate your vagina with your fingers whilst holding a vibrator against your clitoris, or you can rub your clitoris whilst inserting a sex toy inside of your vagina. Similarly, you can use toys for your anus such as butt plugs to completely maximize your fingering experience. 12. Masturbate with a partner.

Some people might think of hand jobs as a teenage activity, but they’re just as fun and pleasurable when you’re an adult. Knight says the key to an enjoyable hand job is lube. ‘It helps to keep things slippery so your fingers slide smoothly over the penis,’ she explains. Ask what feels good It’s important to note that just because porn is labeled as “ethical” or “feminist,” it doesn’t mean everyone involved was treated fairly and respectfully. With a little digging, though, it’s possible to find content that’s ethically produced and doesn’t go against your personal values, according to Rashid-Dawdy. One smart strategy is to look for content that’s produced or directed by someone who has worked as a performer, and a simple way to do that is to see whether any of the performers featured in the video were also involved in its creation, as SELF previously reported. (We’ll also leave SELF’s list of hot audio porn options here for your listening pleasure.) 12. Eliminate distractions. The focus of this process should be to have a good time. Whether you’ve got 5 minutes or an hour, take some time to yourself to relax. You are essentially having sex with yourself, and it’s so important to take this time to feel at one with your body, touch yourself, and find yourself attractive. Learning to understand your sexual desires can help with confidence and even body image. 19 Tips to Have the Best Experience 1. Clean yourself. Sex can be great. Sex with yourself can be even better! Once you have an understanding of the many different ways on how to finger yourself, it’s all about doing what feels nice. Find the spot that simply feels amazing, slowly and gradually increase speed and pressure, and learn the pleasure you can inflict upon yourself.