How To Overcome Findom Addiction: Tips & Strategies To Avoid Financial Domination

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It’s their own fault! They send the money willingly!”If this is what you’re thinking right now, this only shows that you don’t understand addiction. Because addicts can’t give consent.

Indeed, scratch the surface and start talking to people and you will find a rich vein of those for whom addiction to findom has become a problem in their life. Causing relationship breakdowns, poverty and depression.However, what it does do is massively strengthen the sensation of reward and its this that people become addicted too. I studied this growing fetishistic practice and wrote about it in my recent book — Mistress Pussycat: Adventures with Submissive Men in the World of Femdom. While most submissives crave whips, chains, and physical pain, “money slaves” get off on being insulted and losing financial control. Do I feel socially awkward or have trouble connecting with people after I have been active in findom?

I've also thought about the root of this addiction and I can't come up with anything other than that it feels so good to me, but sometimes I feel quite bad afterward. At this point, I feel like being a sub and a masochist is part of my sexual identity and it's just who I am, but I need to find a healthier outlet for it. At the same time I don't know if it's findom that is the problem or my kinks (findom is just one part, probably the most unhealthy one), and if I can even do anything about it.Nero-chemical addiction from validation, attention, porn/sexual activity and fulfilling traditional gender roles For those that become badly addicted, it’s not hard to also imagine how the addiction itself it may contribute outright to depression? Master(bator)s of the universe are in evidence, yet never in control. Money slaves aren’t found only among working class males, loners, or those with low self-esteem. Many findom fans are wealthy and successful. Though they may hold themselves in high regard, these men are erotically stimulated when a woman tells them how useless and pathetic they are. Financial domination has destroyed the lives of men all across this country. Although the fetish may start out small, it can lead to insurmountable, incomprehensible suffering and debt.