Good Inside: The new Sunday Times bestselling gentle parenting guide for fans of Philippa Perry

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We want our kids to want for themselves. As parents, we want our kids to be able to recognize and assert their desires, to be able to hold onto the idea ‘I know what I want, even when people around me tell me no.’ But we cannot encourage subservience and compliance in our kids when they’re young and expect confidence and assertiveness when they’re older. It doesn’t work that way. Robežas nenozīmē pateikt bērniem, ko viņi nedrīkst darīt; robežas nozīmē pateikt bērniem, ko mēs darīsim. As someone who gets overstimulated easily, tantrums can be hard for me to deal with. It always helps to remind myself that tantrums, while uncomfortable, are normal and healthy. In these moments, the child is experiencing an emotion that is simply too big for them to regulate at their stage of development. We talk a lot in the Christian faith about grace: God’s grace for us, grace for ourselves, grace for the people we love and the people we don’t. What I think this book does so well is illustrate what that grace looks like in the most practical sense of parenting–what does grace look like when my kid is having a tantrum? What does grace look like when my kid has lied to me or hits their sibling? “You’re a good kid having a hard time”

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I read this book last month and felt like I had way too many thoughts to squeeze into a blurb for my Friday morning newsletter (sign up here if you’re not already!). I decided to put together a blog post reviewing the book. I’m also going to share some of the biggest things I learned from it.

Ultimately, you want your child to grow up with resiliency and confidence. You want them to be able to navigate tough situations, understand consent, hold their own boundaries, and grow in their relationships. They won’t be confident if they don’t trust their own feelings. They can only trust their feelings if you model that trust by being with them through their emotional highs, holding the boundaries, and helping them recognize the good inside themselves. Summary Recommend to any parent or teacher. A huge paradigm shift with lots of practical steps to make it tangible.

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What am I saying? There are definitely kids who may benefit from this kind of intensive parenting. But they are the minority. So take a deep breath. You’re probably doing fine. Jo dziļāku saikni mēs jūtam ar kādu, jo gatavāki esam izpildīt šī cilvēka prasības. Būtībā klausīšana ir kā attiecību stipruma barometrs. Tāpēc, kad bērni mūs neklausa, ir ļoti svarīgi šīs grūtības uztvert nevis kā problēmu ar bērnu, bet gan kā jūsu savstarpējo attiecību sarežģījumu. Ja bērns jūs ignorē vai reti klausa jūsu lūgumiem, viņš bez vārdiem cenšas pateikt, ka jūsu attiecībām ir nepieciešamas papildu rūpes un mīlestība. Proverbs 17:25 "A foolish son brings grief to his father and bitterness to the mother who bore him." Dzīvesspēka stiprināšana nozīmē attīstīt spēju izturēt grūtības, neatkāpties sarežģītā, izaicinošā dzīves brīdī, atrast pamatu zem kājām un labo pat tad, ja trūkst pierādījumu par to, ka gaidāmi panākumi. Book Summary: Give and Take by Adam Grant Give and Take by Adam Grant is a book that explores the concept of giving in the workplace. The book argues that giving can be a powerful tool for success…

Attachment issues can also result in unwanted behaviors like sibling rivalry or lying. Usually, in these cases, a child fears losing their connection with you or losing their place in the world. Connect with your child, empathize with them, and tell the truth. Remember that the goal isn’t to end the behavior, but to make it safe for them to stop the behavior on their own. Jūs esat sava bērna dzīvesspēka arhitekti, un tā ir labākā dāvana, ko varat viņam sniegt. Galu galā spēja sekmīgi pārvarēt daudzos dzīves mestos izaicinājumus ir visdrošākais ceļš uz cilvēka laimi.