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Are you tired of defiant behavior and the endless cycle of yelling and nagging? Parenting is challenging but doesn’t have to be with the right tools. Instead, discover a natural way of encouraging good behavior that is both loving and effective. You deserve to feel empowered, in control, and confident in your parenting.
How the concept of “childhood” has been understood in different ways historically and why we must understand it anew today. These approaches] respond with something that either creates fear in them or isolates them. Because they're so desperate to have the connection restored, they will cease the behaviour. But it's a façade of control. Internally they're still quite unsettled and dysregulated. In the longer term, that can actually leave your child more prone to things like anxiety, depression and attention challenges. Turn their defiant behavior around using my neuro-scientific strategies designed for every age and lead with confidence and strength. I'm Arabella Hille. I am an experienced Parenting Educator qualified in Behavioral Science. I'm also a mother, former teacher, the author of the best-selling Ultimate Guide Parenting series, and Founder of Victorious Parenting. Via my books and programs, I have helped over 70,000 caregivers transform their home lives!In reality, discipline is about connecting with your children in their time of need. We provide that support through our connection with them, that calms and steadies and regulates them – and then we give some teaching about what we hope will be able to change about that reaction the next time around. Not that we expect [that it] actually will change! Whatever the cause, we got lost. We, as a dominant culture, are in a time of generally and utterly misunderstanding the needs of children, the form of child development, and the way this must play out in our leadership role as parents for our children to have a fulfilling shot at this thing called life. Of course, there are those that walk amongst the masses who have worked to maintain a conscious awareness and/or an intuitive understanding of children. But collectively, we don’t get it. My major complaint - and it is major - is that TWICE in the book the author states that holding on to "a little" parental guilt is a good thing because this guilt will motivate you to push yourself to be the best parent you can be. This guide will help you across your child's whole childhood. It provides solutions that are respectful to both you and your child without the need for yelling, spanking or punishing. So that your love, and growth will have a domino effect on all that witness it. My son once suffered from crippling low self-esteem. This was due to being bullied at school that resulted in an incident where he tried to take his own life. He was just 8 years old...
The good news is, that this does not have to be your reality. In this chapter, you will become aware of what is going on behaviorally and how to avoid going off the edge with everyone else. This chapter will empower you to do something different in your parenting than the masses. You will learn the keys to cultivating a culture of success in your home so that you too can experience the peace and freedom you deserve in your home! The retort: If you molly coddle a child through every single tough time, how will that child every deal with tough times out in the big bad world?Gain more positive energy to give to your child and the other loved ones in your life (including yourself). The retort: That is exactly the same thing as helicopter parenting, and we all know that is bad for kids!
Parenting is tough but with the right tools it doesn’t have to be. Discover a natural way of encouraging good behavior that is both loving and effective. You deserve to feel empowered, in control and confident in your parenting. In this easy-to-read, science-based book, parents, caregivers and big people of all kinds will discover how discipline affects children’s development, why intervention should reinforce connection not separation, and why the disciplinary strategies that may have been used on us as children are not the ones that children really need. In addition, you’ll learn: Master your emotions with my "What to do when you lose it" method. Plus, you'll receive bonus resources and additional support, equipping you to discipline without damage for every age. Receive bonus resources and continued support from myself and my wonderful parenting community to maximize your success.
Disciplining Without Damage is not about trying to remain calm 24/7 or denying the range of emotions you experience, or letting your kids run wild. The retort: My child is going to need to have this figured out as an adult, so they might as well figure it out now. We try to press upon children realities of the adult world, the idea that we want them to be in control of themselves. The reality is, kids don't have self-control because their frontal and prefrontal cortex are immature. We know that the brain develops from the bottom up, meaning that the core or the foundation of the brain is the first circuitry that really takes root, and the rest of the brain will layer up on that foundation. My name is Arabella Hille and for the last 10 years I have been working and educating my son from home.
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